I had a couple a friends and a mom who did that to me many times before and I don't like it. I don't like being lied to, being deceived feeling betrayed basically. If your not going to get anyone a present DON'T PROMISE IT! Simple as that your just going to make yourself look like a douche bag, a liar, a person who can't be trusted anymore.
I remember I had this one friend who I didn't talk to in a long time before cause she can just be so annoying with her calls. She would call me all the time during the day when I'm busy so I had to lose contact with her on purpose so I wouldn't get anymore calls. And so a few years go by and I did miss her I don't know why I guess it could be that we grew up together and I have a lot of my middle school memories with her. So anyways I find her on Facebook and add her as a friend I give her my phone number she calls it the next day and we start talking for a long time. And she asked for my address at first I wasn't sure if I should cause I don't want her stalking me cause sometimes she can be a little bit like that lol. But she says that she has something for me and she been keeping it for a time like this and that she was going to buy me some more things to put in the box. So I gave in and gave it to her so months go by and I still don't have my present I'm thinking to myself ''like wtf where's my damn present'' So she asks for my address again and finally I just said 'No I'm not giving it to you again so what? You can lose it again and then keep asking? No just look for it!'' And so that when she stopped asking for it and I still don't have my damn present and it been a year now.
I also have another friend that did what she did except this was before that other thing even started. This friend I won't give her name but I will say she was never a nice girl she a spoiled little brat that gets everything she wants and everything her way in life. I never liked her but I always had to put up with her spoiled little daddy's girl way, ughh. She says to me on the phone one day out of no where cause I remember thinking to myself this is random I never asked for anything and here she is saying she has something to send me. Now this was when my birthday had passed and she said to me at that time that this was a gift for me for my birthday that she missed out cause she didn't even call me on that day or even the week after. So I got a little excited cause she made it sound like I was going to like it and it was going to be good. She never sent it, NEVER EVEN HAD ANYTHING for me. I was so mad and so pist off cause it was the way said it and how she said it. I wanted to kill that stupid long haired, skanky wearing clothes, always gets what she wants BITCH!
If there's a lesson to be learned it NOT to trust anyone not even your
To all the people who lie or like to make believe your going to send someone a gift here a thought you can think of, How would you like to be treated? Is this what you want someone to do to you? Than when the same shit happens to you of what you did to someone on how you treated them don't complain just smile cause it that karma's wonderful way of saying ''what goes around comes around'' Now that something I can live with! You gotta love karma. ^_^
Remember: Treat others on how you would want to be treated.
Xoxo,
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